The Spectrum of Masculinity
2. Understanding the Nuances
Now, let's dive a bit deeper into what these fluctuations actually feel like. Because, let's be honest, abstract concepts are great and all, but practical examples help things click. When someone who's boyflux feels intensely male, they might experience a stronger connection to masculine traits, behaviors, or aesthetics. This could manifest in wanting to dress in traditionally masculine clothing, feeling more confident in their masculinity, or identifying strongly with male pronouns (he/him).
Conversely, when their sense of maleness is low, they might feel less connected to these things. They might prefer more androgynous or feminine styles of clothing, feel less comfortable using male pronouns, or simply not feel a strong connection to the idea of being male. It's important to note that these are just examples. There's no set list of feelings or behaviors that define boyflux. Everyone experiences it differently. You might feel a heightened sense of social confidence when "boy-mode" is activated, or an increase in the desire for typically masculine hobbies like weightlifting or woodworking.
One really important point to remember: Boyflux is NOT the same as gender dysphoria. Gender dysphoria is a sense of distress or discomfort that arises from a mismatch between your assigned gender at birth and your gender identity. While someone who's boyflux might experience dysphoria at times, it's not an inherent part of the identity. Many boyflux individuals are perfectly comfortable with their bodies and simply experience a fluctuating sense of gender.
Think of it like different shades of the same color. You might love a deep, vibrant blue one day, and a soft, muted blue the next. Both are still blue, just different variations. Similarly, someone who's boyflux might experience different shades of masculinity, each valid and authentic in its own way. It's about finding what feels right and honoring those feelings, even as they change.
